Thursday, March 31, 2011

Mumbai, Maharashtra - 27th Jan 2011


St. Andrews College was a noteworthy experience. We spoke to a classroom full of young people (Even the teacher looked like a student.. You know the kind) and they raised the issue of corruption. Being focused on peace and harmony and the environment and all for so long, it was nice to address something new. And Rakesh has a lot of knowledge on politics (the main topic concerned with corruption) and almost everything you can think of, that this turned into a friendly debate. I even stopped taking pictures for a little bit coz it was so interesting.
And then Monika led everybody into an action song that we learnt at the session with the Vaz Foundation. It was childish, yes, but the smiles showed how much people were enjoying it.





Then we put up our street play at the entrance of the college. I really liked the response. John spoke at the end about the whole message to the crowd and this was the first time that when he asked them a question, they shouted back a response on their own the first time itself.. And with full josh. And smiles. Gave a really happy feeling to everybody.

In the afternoon we went to Lady Of The Sea Church at Uttan, a rural area about a couple of hours outside of Mumbai. A whole bunch of people came, including fisher folk and even some physically challenged people, most of them children.

The program goes on and ya there’s the crowd, but this girl in a wheelchair right in front (We find out later her name is Lakshmi and that she was about 16) starts ‘dancing.’ She launches her hands and legs into the air as the beat of the music starts and there is such joy on her face as she watches the program.. We spoke to the Sister taking care of her after the show. I don’t remember the name of her condition, but she could understand everything happening around her, but she can't communicate. She would make appropriate sounds to say how she was feeling, but couldn’t speak in words. Sister told us just how happy she was to watch the dance and dance with the music too.

After the show was done, John left some music on to fill the silence. We approached Rohan, also in a wheelchair. He was looking sideways and Sister Julie, his caretaker, tried to get him to look at us, and then she told us that he was keeping his ear exposed coz he was listening to the music. He loves music, she said, and anytime anything plays, he ‘dances’ by putting his hands in the air and smiling. He had a condition called Dystonia, which is a neurological disorder in which sustained muscles contractions cause twisting and repetitive movements or abnormal postures. His arms and legs were all bent and crooked. Sister Julie told us that his mother died at age 22 and his father used to beat him, once even breaking his arm. They couldn’t even put a cast because of his condition. And his arm had to heal like that only. Sister also said he still loves his father. Whenever they allowed them to meet, Rohan’s face would light up.
There is so much to learn from this special Soul. He really touched us with his story in a way no one else did. Like Lakshmi, he understood everything around him, but couldn’t speak. He was only 9 years old.

Rakesh asked to pick him up. Sister gently put Rohan in Rakesh’s arms and Rakesh started dancing with him, singing the song playing. Rohan’s arms go up in enjoyment and he presents the most beautiful smile to Rakesh. And Rakesh starts talking to him.
Hum tumhe apne saath le jayenge. Theek hai na? Poore India ka darshan kara denge. Aur har jagah jaa ke dance karenge.
The smile widens.
Sister says, “Mujhe chhod ke chale jaoge? Aise hi?
The smile remains and Rohan’s eyes blink in approval.
“Very good then. You go with Rakesh uncle. You’ll forget about me also.”
Rakesh says, “Haan now to Rohan will come with us only. Hum log bahut masti karenge, music sunenge, dance karenge.. Aaoge na mere saath? Aa jaa.. Aa jaa..



Then Rakesh starts rocking Rohan in his arms and singing the song that’s playing. I just stand back and witness the love that Rakesh has for this young boy. So many children like Rohan are spurned by society, with people afraid to face them, interact with them. And here Rakesh was showering truckloads of love on him. I saw the smiles on both their faces, and the understanding and connection they shared, beyond words. It shook something within, and it made me wish that people could just be open like Rakesh to everything around him and share an unconditional love that this world so sorely needs. He was truly exemplifying what we were here for on this journey. That was a very powerful moment.

After this, I thought we were done for the day, but we’re escorted to a place further inside Uttan. Here we put up a show on the side of the road. It was a completely unique experience. The audience was mostly fisher folk and their families. We spoke to them wondering how much they understood and if the message was getting across. Later at dinner, one of the people from there comes as a representative to tell us just how much they liked the performances and the message and that they wish us good luck for the rest of the journey. In fact, their appreciation was more than the urban areas.
Things really feel good when they come and you’re not expecting it.

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